Feb 11, 2010
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Baskets gift baskets are practical and popular gifts for baby showers. Although there are ready-made baby gift baskets that are being sold in baby stores, this doesn’t mean that you can’t put together your very own baby basket. Be sure to add the essentials such as several diapers, terry cloths, a bib, burp cloths, baby lotion and baby oil, shower gels and other pampering bath items. Aside from these basics, you might also add some unique baby clothes to make your basket more special. Go green baby clothes are all the rage right now. These clothes are usually made from all-natural materials so they are friendlier toward the environment.
Jan 22, 2010
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I just stumbled upon this incredible gift idea – The Diaper Cake!
My wife and I just came back from a baby shower where as the table centerpiece stood this enormous colorful cake which at first glance seemed edible but at a closer look, I realized was made out of diapers!! Amazing!
Baby shower cakes are hugely popular right now when it comes to baby shower gift ideas. If you are planning to shop for personalized baby gifts, then consider purchasing a baby shower cake. A baby shower cake allows you to give the future mommy plenty of baby essentials in one beautiful package. The contents of a baby shower cake varies so be sure to explore your options. Typically, baby shower cakes contain multiple diapers, a stuffed toy and bath essentials for the mommy-to-be (such as lotions and bath salts). Some cakes also include a set of kids’ clothes. Baby shower cakes also come in a variety of colors and themes depending on the gender of the baby.
Jan 4, 2010
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Rio Grande Games has been in business since 1998 and began when the creator of the company realized that the family strategy games once produced in Germany weren’t available in the United States. Now the company focuses on creating fun strategy games for the entire family to play and enjoy together.
RA: The Dice Game
The original Ra game was such a hit that the company decided to create RA: The Dice Game. In order to play this game, players try to score by collecting Pharaohs, floods, monuments, and even civilizations. They roll the dice and are allowed to choose which dice they want to keep and which ones they want to re-roll. As with the original Ra, disasters can happen at any times and can completely ruin a player’s strategy.
This game is absolutely wonderful for anyone who enjoyed the original Ra game and should probably only be used by families who have children who are ten and older, as the strategy can get a bit confusing at times if you’re not paying close attention to what is going on. It’s also a wonderful game for the entire family because it brings history into the house. The game spans 1500 years of history, from pharaohs whose names you may know, to obscure ones that you’d never heard about until you began playing the game. We believe this to be a great historical game for any household that has members in it who enjoy history and who also want to conquer an entire land based solely on their wits!
Fast Flowing Forest Fellers
With a hilarious name, Fast Flowing Forest Fellers by Rio Grande Games brings a little bit of silliness to the world of family strategy games. This game is all about trying to get ahead in the lumberjack world. Each player controls a small group of lumberjacks whose job it is to make sure that their load of lumber makes it to the finish line first. Every player gets to control up to three lumberjacks – the twist of the game is that they only get a handful of cards, and their cards have to work for all of the lumberjacks, making it necessary to plan your moves ahead of time.
What’s great about this game isn’t just that it’s perfect for children 8 or older, but that there are six double-sided game boards that are included in the box, which means that you can play dozens of different races down the river, making the game different every time you play. Let’s face it: we’ve all wanted to be a lumberjack getting their load down the river at some point in time or another, haven’t we? Okay, maybe not, but Fast Flowing Forest Fellers makes the idea of traveling down a river to deliver lumber an exciting prospect.
The 3 Commandments
We’ve all heard of the 10 commandments, but The 3 Commandments? It’s true! There are three commandments – at least in this game. The 3 Commandments is a very unique game. The game starts when one player becomes the High Priestess, and in this game, the High Priestess is the one who is in charge. The High Priestess is supposed to watch all of the other players while they participate in a religious ceremony. At the beginning of play, the High Priestess draws four cards that all have rules on them. He or she designates two rules as good, and one rule as bad. Then, during game play, the priestess keeps track of which player gets points for doing something that was on the card, and which ones lose points.
The fun thing about this game is that the cards don’t only give points for moving things on the board, but even for doing things such as taking a drink or smiling at the High Priestess during play, allowing players to have to pay close attention to what is getting the attention of the game’s ruler! This is a great game for families who enjoy games that have one person in charge and the rest trying to figure out what they’re doing!
Bonnie and Clyde
With Bonnie and Clyde, Rio Grande Games has taken Rummy, as well as the story of the notorious outlaws, to a whole new level. Bonnie and Clyde is a strategy game that’s all about earning points using your cards, much in the same way that you would earn points in a Rummy game. But this game is a bit different. Players are trying to make melds, which is three or more of a kind, using evidence cards that are the same color in order to score points. There are, however, Gavel cards, and these are what takes this game from being a simple card game to being one of strategy.
Card games are great for family members of all ages, but we found that this one is best understood by children who are at least over the age of eight, as there is definitely some strategy necessary in order to gain points in the game. It’s a quick play, taking under an hour to complete, and because two to four players can play at a time, it’s a great addition to any family game night. While we do wish that there were a bit more mystery in the game, it’s definitely a solid card game.
Burger Joint
Who doesn’t love a burger and fries? Rio Grande Games has taken the love for burgers and fries and has created a strategic game that is all about earning victory points through owning restaurants. Players start by owning one basic and two advanced restaurants on their own board, which is known as a development board. One player owns a chain of burger joints, while the other owns a chain of pizza joints. Players need to share their available resources but while the player needs to have all of the resources they can get, both players need different things, making it necessary to use your head to figure out what you need and what you can get from the other player.
Being only a two player game takes this down a notch in our eyes, as most families have more than two members in it, and it’s really only a game for children who are over twelve. Because, however, it takes only about a half an hour to play, it is definitely possible for two players to play for awhile and then to switch off to two more. This is a very unique game that is actually much more difficult to win than it first seems.
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Jan 4, 2010
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Large families, in general, have it tough. They have all the problems that any parent has, multiplied by a large number. Bigger families can be especially tough when kids are still very young and close in age, particularly in the case of twins or multiples. One of the many problems that beset larger families is that so many of the hottest toys are designed with only one child in mind. While there’s nothing wrong with this in general, in can often lead to a hassle for those who have two, three, or even more children to entertain. For families who often find themselves in this particular predicament, one great solution is the Step2 Choo Choo Wagon.
Unlike other toys that seem specifically built for only one kid, it is exactly the opposite—it was designed with multiple children in mind. Where other wagons have room for one child to get a ride, or two at most, this particular toy has the capacity to carry as many as five kids all at the same time. That’s because this particular wagon is built of modular “cars” that can be coupled or uncoupled. This innovation makes it easy to see why this is one of the most popular toys for families who have multiple kids to entertain. This way, instead of needing one parent to pull each child, a single mom or dad can give a ride to all their kids all at once.
The secret to the success of the Step2 Choo Choo Wagon is modular packaging. The actual wagon itself comes with two cars. Then, parents can choose to purchase other Choo Choo Cars to add to their train as they need. This way they can customize the toy, and purchase only as much wagon as they really need, while still guaranteeing that there’s plenty of room. There’s even an extra storage car that you can purchase to help you tote along all the things you and your train might need. This product makes trips to the park and other similar places fun and even easy, which make this one of the best toys 2010.
It should be noted though that each car has an intended weight limit of 50 pounds. While this might not seem like much, this means that if you have a full train connected, you could have more than 250 pounds to pull around. While this may seem like quite a lot, those who are used to dealing with having that many children to move around will probably still find that pulling the cart is by far the easiest and most fun way to move their family around. All in all, this doesn’t detract this from being one of the top toys 2010, but it is worth noting.
In general though, we found that kids loved taking a ride on the Step2 Choo Choo Wagon, which in the end really makes this one of the greatest toys for this situation. If you’ve got a large family to move and entertain, you’ll no doubt be glad to find out how much they enjoy riding on their very own choo choo train, no matter where they end up going.
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Jan 3, 2010
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We want our children to learn to speak and communicate. We want them to become independent thinkers. We also want them, someday, to stand on their own. Well, believe it or not, these are some of the key factors to explain why some children argue with their parents. According to the Department of Families, “arguments between brothers and sisters are one of the ways that children learn to respect other people’s belongings and feelings.” Children are just like adults. We like to present our ideas and sometimes argue to express our opinions or points of view. Children, however, are just beginning to learn how to argue without being disrespectful. Below are some pointers to help parents teach their child how to share their thoughts without offending others.
- Do not argue with your child. It’s that’s simple. An argument can only occur if you let one occur.
- Many arguments can be avoided when you give the child an option. For example: “You can either empty the dishwasher or take out the trash.”
- Treat your child and yourself with respect. Be objective when you speak and try to use fewer words. For example: “I need your help. Your job is to pick up your toys. Please begin now.” Avoid statements or questions like: “Can you” or “Do you want to pick up your toys now.”
- Teach your child the difference between debate and arguments. Debates allow two people to share their points of view without offending others and leaving one person a winner and another a loser. Arguments end with a winner and a loser. Teach your child what points of view or opinions are debatable in your home. If your child says, “Mom, I’m tired of doing dishes.” The parent can respond by saying, “That’s fine. It’s a good time to change chores. You may pick between feeding the dog or dusting this week.”
- Use simple body and facial language instead of words. Simple body and facial language includes: Looking at your child and show the face of patience. Your face should show that you are not angry, but you are also not amused.
- Sit down with your child and let the child know the negative consequences that they will receive if they argue with a parent. Set the consequence ahead of time and stick to the consequence. It’s appropriate to let children know that you do not want an argument as a warning before providing the consequence. Remember the first example provided above.
- You may provide incentives. However, do not over use this strategy or you will be teaching the child that rewards come after each request. “You may play with your friends when you are done doing the dishes.”
- Encourage and teach your child to ask for permission. This will prevent many arguments.
- Prepare yourself for the fact that your child will be making more requests that may lead to future arguments. To find out if your child’s request is normal for his or her age group, ask a teacher, youth group leader, coach or other adults who have many years of experience working with children to find out if their request is normal.
- Let your child know that making a request should be done in private or at home. Some parents, for example, tell their child that if they ask to have a friend sleep over in front of the friend that their request will automatically be denied.
Note: Children who have chronic or ongoing behavioral problems and arguments that lead to anger, violence or other fear inducing tactics may need to be assessed by a trained professional. Usually these behaviors should be diagnosed by a psychiatrist or other medical professionals. You may also obtain assistance from a school psychologist who may provide some insights and resource information.
Scott Wardell is a contributing blogger for Empowering Parents. Scott is also the creator of Scottcounseling.com.
Jan 3, 2010
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Have you made parenting mistakes you’d like to correct? And what are you going to do differently starting now? Empowering Parents will be giving away autographed copies of James Lehmans’ groundbreaking new book, Transform Your Problem Child to 10 lucky winners of our first EP contest of 2010.
Just tell us a parenting mistake you’ve made with your child, and an effective technique you’ve started doing (or are planning to start). Send all submissions, 500 words maximum, to editor@empoweringparents.com. Your entries will be read by the EP staff and a qualified Parental Support Line advisor.
The deadline for our contest is midnight, January 18, 2010 and winners will be announced in the January 26, 2010 issue of EP.
P.S. All winning entries will be published in the Empowering Parents blog! (Please note that by submitting your entry, you are agreeing to allow us to publish your submission in Empowering Parents.)
Jan 3, 2010
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Dear PSL:
My wife and I have very different ideas about parenting. While we try not to fight in front of the kids, it really causes a lot of battles between us. I think a lot of it comes from differences in our upbringing; she didn’t have to follow any rules when she was a kid. I want our children to understand that rules are important; I want them to understand accountability and integrity. I’m always talking to them about these issues – it seems like every day, one of them does something that brings it up. My wife, on the other hand, refuses to follow through with consequences, and she tells me to “lighten up” on the kids. As I said, we try not to argue in front of them, but it’s hard when I tell our kids to stop doing something, and right away, she tells them what they’re doing is no big deal. Is it any surprise who the kids listen to? How can I get my wife to understand that what I’m trying to teach the kids is important?
–Frustrated Dad in PA
Dear Frustrated Dad:
We hear from a lot of parents who have a different parenting style than their partner or their ex. In a way, it’s amazing that two people with very different backgrounds and perspectives can find any common ground at all! And when you are talking about parenting, emotions can certainly run very high. It can be difficult to get children to follow basic household rules when one parent gives a consequence and the other “undoes” it, or tells the kids that they don’t have to listen. It can make you feel like you’re fighting the battle from all sides. In a sense, both of you are right: kids need to be held accountable for their actions, and, focusing on every single behavior can be overwhelming, and can even backfire: kids will tune you right out! The good news is, you and your wife can find a way to work together, even if you have different ideas.
I appreciate that you try not to argue or discuss your parenting differences in front of the children. It is difficult to teach your child to follow one set of rules when he sees those rules up for debate within your own family. Some kids will also learn to play one parent against the other when they know the parents disagree. It’s important to present a united front to your children when it comes to basic household rules. If you find it difficult to remain calm in front of the kids, try to give yourself an “out”: if you disagree with something your partner is doing, you might say “I’d like to talk about this together before we give our daughter our decision.”
Once you are able to discuss the situation away from the kids, it’s tempting to get into an argument about why your way is better than your spouse’s way – that’s understandable, but unlikely to help solve the issue. I bet you and your partner have argued these points a million times, and so far, no one has “won.” Rather than argue about whose style is right and whose is wrong, you might see if you can find a place of agreement. You may be surprised to find that you do actually have places you agree! It may take awhile, but there is always a place of agreement, especially when you focus on specific behaviors rather than broad concepts. For example: while you might argue about whether sharing should be mandatory because it promotes goodwill toward others, both of you likely agree that the kids should not take or destroy other peoples’ things, and if they borrow an item, they need to return it in good shape. That means there would be a rule in your home that no one takes or destroys something that belongs to another, and if they break something, they are responsible for fixing or replacing it. Decide together what the consequences will be if the kids break those rules. If one of you feels you cannot follow through with the consequences, maybe you can agree to at least not “undo” the consequences the other parent enforces, and agree to not argue about your differences in front of the kids.
As far as feeling like you are constantly talking about broad issues like accountability and integrity, remember that kids’ brains function far more concretely than adult brains. So, while having family discussions about abstract terms like responsibility and integrity are important, those discussions rarely result in concrete changes in behavior – the kids may understand it while you’re talking, but fail to put the principles into action later! You are far more likely to see changes when you focus on a couple of behaviors at a time, working with your kids to solve their problems in more appropriate ways. I don’t mean to suggest that these discussions aren’t important – they are. Family discussions – especially when they involve respectful disagreement – help to develop beliefs about the world and how we care for ourselves and others. It is in these discussions that you and your partner can role model how to voice your opinion without cutting down or degrading an opposing opinion. Just remember that discussions like these, in and of themselves, do not tend to lead to changes in behavior. For that, you and your partner need to find that place of agreement, and follow through with what you’ve planned.
I want to clarify that the suggestions given above apply to simple differences in parenting. If you feel that your partner is abusive – verbally, physically, or emotionally to you or your children, please seek out professional resources and support in your local area. If you are trying to teach your children to act appropriately and respectfully, but your partner calls the children names or threatens violence, none of your rules and consequences are likely to be effective: kids watch what you do, not what you say. And remember, there is no excuse for abuse – from anyone in your family. Please contact your local community mental health center or parenting network for support. If you find yourself unable to control your own temper, you might also check out James’ article, Temper, Temper: Keeping Your Cool When Kids Push Your Buttons.
For more on parenting differences, you might check out: Differences in Parenting? How Your Child May Be Using it Against You, and James’ new program, Two Parents, One Plan.
Good luck, and please keep in touch and let us know how it goes!
–Megan
Megan Devine is a writer and Parental Support Line Advisor for the Total Transformation Program.
Jan 3, 2010
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2009 saw controversy and more controversy when it came to parenting, from reality T.V. scandals like Balloon Boy, the Gosselins and Octomom to parents’ worries about Sexting, texting and kids’ online activities in general. We’re also glad to see that our resident ADHD/ADD expert Dr. Bob Myers’ insightful advice is again a big hit with our readers, as are Dr. Joan’s “tell-it-like-it-is” blog posts filled with useful tips and encouragement. Many of our Parent Bloggers are also in the top ten this year, and we’d like to take this opportunity to thank them once again for all their hard work—we’re both proud and humbled to have such talented and dedicated parents blogging for us.
We hope you’ll enjoy this virtual trip down memory lane as you read about the issues that grabbed EP readers most in 2009. Thanks again for reading, and as always, please let us know what’s on your mind—and what you’d like to see us cover next!
–Elisabeth Wilkins, EP Editor
P.S. Remember, we’re all in this together. Every comment you leave on EP truly has the potential to touch or help another parent out there. So thank you for reading–we’re grateful to have you here with us in our judgment-free parenting zone.
EP’s Top Ten Blog Posts of 2009
10. Parenting Mistakes I Have Made (and Why Natural Consequences are the Key to Changing Your Child’s Behavior) by Kemuel Ronis, Parent Blogger
9. Octomom: 6 Was Not Enough by Elisabeth Wilkins, EP Editor
8. Parenting an ADHD/ADD Child: 10 Ways to Help Their Behavior Improve by Dr. Bob Myers
7. Sibling Fighting, Backtalk and Yelling–It Must be Summer by Dr. Joan Munson
6. Working Through the Total Transformation: One Mom Tries to Deal with Her Son’s Disrespect and Backtalk by Lola Howle, Parent Blogger
5. Is Your Child Sexting Nude Photos? Surprise! 1 in 5 Have Tried It by Elisabeth Wilkins, EP Editor
4. When Your Teen Says, “I’m Almost 18–You Can’t Tell Me What to Do!” by Megan Devine, Parental Support Line Advisor
3. How I Stood My Ground (Eventually) in the Face of My Daughter’s Negotiating by Parent Blogger Kathy Pride
2. How to Talk to the Demanding Child: 12 Tips to Use Right Away by Parent Blogger Scott Wardell
And our top post of 2009?
1. How to Help Kids with ADHD Stay on Track in School (and Improve Their Academic Performance!) by Dr. Bob Myers
Please let us know which posts and articles on EP resonated most with you–we’d love to hear your opinion!
Jan 3, 2010
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Anyone who grew up watching Little House on the Prairie remembers the show where the Ingalls children find a tin cup, a peppermint stick and a shiny penny under the tree in the cold log cabin in Minnesota. In flapping night dresses and sleep bonnets they dance merrily around the fire as Pa plays his fiddle. Laura and Mary don’t necessarily love the plain tin cups, but they feel special knowing the cups mean they don’t have to share anymore. The intrinsic value goes far beyond the cost of the tin.
Things have not changed all that much from those pioneer days.
No one is taking the wagon to town for midnight shopping, but every mother is keenly aware of the traditions that make the holiday special for children. We will work creatively, perhaps starting before the snow flies, to find the best deals and coordinate with Grandmas and relatives to get the gift under the tree that makes her child’s eyes sparkle. We give to let them know their wants are valid even if our child’s wants seem so trivial compared to an adult’s needs.
Most parents put every effort into making holiday wishes come true – if only for one morning – because we know that in the grand scheme of life, putting a special request under the tree is a lot easier than doing almost anything else for our children.
We cannot always protect them from illness and disease.
We cannot take away debilitating psychological or genetic challenges.
We cannot make other children accept them as they are, or fabricate a life-long friendship where there is none.
We cannot buy our way out of medical debt, sometimes we cannot pay the mortgage, and sometimes we have to move in with Uncle Ed.
We cannot hand over our confidence to our teenage daughters or grant passing grades to our hard working students.
We cannot guarantee safe passage through dangerous streets, protect them from hateful words that they will hear or keep them safe from unpredictable circumstances.
But at the end of each year, parents listen closely to a child’s material requests and commit to memory each list of wishes written in crooked but hopeful handwriting. We are grateful for all the good things and hope that our efforts strike a bargain to keep things as good as they are, keenly aware that even if circumstances are bad, they can always be worse.
We creatively work to give our children good holiday memories, sometimes calling in favors, maybe working an extra job, trading our time for someone else’s talents, blatantly robbing Peter to pay Paul and making New Year’s resolutions all about balancing the checkbook and learning to simplify.
For now, we will live in the moment and try to buy some time for our children so they can remain innocent and unaware of the grown up stuff, all the unforeseen challenges that they will have to deal with all too soon.
Moms and Dads shelter them for a little while longer, taking seriously the job of protecting the wonder of the season, this granting of tangible wishes, this material miracle-making, hoping to never be asked to put in a pretty box the things parents cannot procure in a midnight run to Walmart.
Annita Woz is the mother of three, writer and Parent Blogger for Empowering Parents.
Jan 3, 2010
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I read some wonderful research years ago (which I would credit if I could remember the author), that said parenting is so tough because you have to first create the idea in your child’s head that “Mommy and I are one” (sorry, child-rearing guys!), to give your child a sense of safety, and then, as the child matures, you create the idea in their heads that they are separate entities that must go out and create their own lives in the world and be masters of their own destinies.
My husband Kemuel and I each had to be both a mom and dad to our kids, so we know first-hand that these are totally different mind-states to create in your kids’ heads. Fortunately, this is a really age-related task, so you have years to move from “Mommy and I are one” to “I must kill my father to take my own place in the world” (with apologies to Oedipus!) It’s a blend, and like mixing coffees or cocktails, sometimes you need more of one, and sometimes you need more of the other.
Specific things we’ve done in this area? Well, when my daughter was young, after we finished our bedtime ritual of reading a story together and lying in bed while “A Child’s Gift of Lullabies” played (I can’t hear that CD without feeling I should find a flat surface to lie down on immediately), I would kiss her and say good night and leave the room. If she came downstairs later, I would tell her, “The Mommy shop is closed.” She needed to know that I had other things to do when she went to bed. (Things like paying bills, doing household chores, and getting ready for work the next day.) I really believe kids need to know that Mommies and Daddies are not endlessly available. After a few repetitions, she got the message and gave it up. (Of course, this is barring true emergencies – but even along those lines, on a funnier note, when the kids were teenagers, we told them that when my husband and I were in our bedroom and the door was shut, they were NOT to knock unless a) the house was on fire, and b) they had already tried to put it out and couldn’t! One of our children knocked on our door one night after it was closed, and when we asked, “Is the house on fire?” (it wasn’t), slunk away with her permission slip unsigned. She got a great lesson in explaining to her teacher why she didn’t have the slip—and learned how to budget her time better to create the outcome she wanted (going on the trip).
WHAT DOES YOUR CHILD NEED NOW? A) A GREATER SENSE OF CONNECTION, OR B) MORE ENCOURAGEMENT FOR INDEPENDENCE?
Linda Falcao is a mother, attorney, founder of the youth volunteer organization www.americaserves.net and parent blogger for EP. To read more about Linda and our other contributors, click here.
Jan 3, 2010
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Here we are, in the last and craziest month of the year, when everything seems to move at warp speed. Everyone’s running around like a bunch of squirrels on espresso (as is our national tradition), buying Christmas and Hanukkah presents, going to parties, checking our budgets twice — and trying to keep it all together.
I’m definitely not immune to this manic pace — I’ve had a few crazy days in the last few weeks myself, believe me — but it’s nothing compared to how I used to be. You see, a few years ago, I figured out the secret of slowing down the holidays and not losing my mind. While I can’t follow my own advice as much as I’d like, here’s the holiday game plan that I try to stick to each year:
“Just say no.” I have become very choosy about the things our family does around this time of year. We map out the really important stuff, add a few fun extras, and keep it really, really simple. We probably have a much quieter holiday than most people, but it works for us!
Check yourself — When Your Pulse Starts Racing, Take a Deep Breath: Here’s an up-to-the-minute example. As I was wrapping some gifts yesterday, my 6 year-old son kept taking the paper in an attempt to make airplanes out of it. Well, when I found his little stash of F-1 bombers, I nearly lost it. Out came mean mommy and the words, ”How many times do I have to tell you ‘no’! That’s not for you to play with!” Luckily, I caught that fingernails-on-the-chalkboard tone in my voice and realized I needed to ratchet it down a little. I had a cup of tea, took a deep breath, went to my son’s room and said, ”You know Honey, I’m not sure if there’s enough paper for all these presents. Can you use some scrap paper for your airplanes instead?” He was fine with that, we hugged, and I felt much calmer. Which brings me to my next tip:
Remember to breathe: A wise woman gave me this advice a few years ago. She said, “You’d be surprised how often we forget to breathe when we’re stressed and upset.” So true. So unclench that jaw, take a few deep breaths and stretch when you think of it. Even small moments of peace can have a powerful impact in your life.
Pick a few activities that add meaning to your holiday. Start new traditions: My family was never very big on Christmas. It was a hard time of year for both my parents (let’s face it, it’s a hard time of year for a lot of people out there) and so in many ways, it was a holiday to get through, not to enjoy. As an adult, while I’m not a huge Christmas person, I do want to create some new traditions with my family to make the season warm and bright. The activities we do are just small things, really — making cookies, listening to certain music (Charlie Brown Christmas is my favorite!), seeing our friend perform in an annual concert, and going to church on Christmas Eve night.
Don’t go overboard with gifts, and take your time opening them: My friend Julie Falatko at World of Julie advocates doing “slow Christmas.” She and her family open presents one by one, play with them, take breaks to eat or what have you. The kids really enjoy their presents and there isn’t that frenzy of paper tearing (and the inevitable anti-climax) that comes with the orgy of Christmas morning. I have also found that a few well-chosen gifts mean a lot more than tons of things my son will stop playing with in two weeks.
Give something to someone who could use a hand: I heard a wonderful story last year about a man who gave presents to a single mom and her child every Christmas. This mother could not afford any presents whatsoever (she was just scraping by) so their neighbor anonymously left a bag of presents at their doorstep every Christmas for years. Inspired by this story, for the last two years we’ve been buying a winter coat and donating it to a child in need in our community. I take my son out shopping, we pick something out, and give it to the shelter in our town. I love seeing the look on my son’s face when he chooses the coats each year — he really is starting to think about what it means to help people.
That’s the list so far, but I am certain I’ll keep adding to it over the years. (I just hope I can follow my own advice!) I’d also love to hear any ideas you have for slowing down the pace and reducing stress around this time of year.
Here’s wishing you a wonderful holiday season!
Jan 3, 2010
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Parents, have you heard anything like this lately?
- A co-worker tells his boss that the young man sitting out in the lobby waiting for an interview has brought his mother along and wants her to go on the tour of the facility.
- Someone is fired because after two years, her work product still has too many errors. Six months prior in a performance review (where the two managers spelled out very clearly that accuracy and attention to detail needed to dramatically improve), she seemed unfazed, unconcerned and proved to be unable to train herself to double check her work before she passed it to the next party.
- A neighbor calls to say she is worried about her son who works part-time and then spends the rest of his time playing video games and going to the gym. When chided by dad to turn off the game station and pitch in with laundry and dishes, the son gently reassures his father that he probably wouldn’t have time for that as he knows he will soon be hired at a place where management will treat him with respect and pay him what he is worth.
The new hire at your brother’s office is always late. Even though there is a big project due mid-day, the new guy leaves to work out over his lunch hour and then looks surprised when HR requested that future forward he is to shower and change out of his work out gear before returning to his desk.
Does this seem hard to believe?
Generation Y children are born between 1978 and 1990. Prepare yourself for these and more incredulous moments if you are hiring a Generation Y worker. And brace yourself if you are a parent shouldering the blame for creating this generation of why-should-I-work-hard-for-you workers.
You may be asking yourself, “Since when has putting child-rearing as a top priority been a bad thing?” (Since Generation X grew up, I guess.)
And it isn’t just the endless activities, the effort to build confidence, or the willingness to adapt to umpteen scheduled activities that has caused the uproar. It’s all of that plus the intelligence and worldliness of Generation Y’s experience with global technology and the constant need for communication that has taught them to focus largely on short-term rewards and to look out for themselves above all others. After all, isn’t ”short-term” exactly how we treat the environment, the market, the entertainment that we consume on a daily basis?
Bruce Tulgan, author of Not Everyone Gets a Trophy believes globalization and technology has shaped Gen Y’ers into young adults who seek to maximize tangible benefits and their connections to people in power. After all, most of them are working in unstable institutions with uncertain futures. Knowing that industry is ever-changing and aware that today’s cutting edge is likely tomorrow’s old Facebook look, Gen Yers question authority, command an ever-present access to accurate research via technology and have mastered the short-term goal of focusing their brilliant ideas and earning their trophies.
In Tulgan’s words, “Generation Y is like Generation X on-fast-forward-with-self-esteem-on-steroids….[their parents] have guided, directed, supported, coached, and protected…and structured.” Not surprisingly, most Gen Y employees report that they love their parents, trust them, and will continue to seek advice from them even from the workplace cubicle via the ever present cell phone. (And they have been known to bring their parents in to work or have them call you to clarify your needs, without any of that debilitating embarrassment factor!) Yes, bosses report more and more that mom and dad are calling to inform employers of the gifts of Susie Q and sometimes chide them for expecting too many hours at the workplace.
According to experts, the best place for a Gen Y worker is at a company that can offer a flexible reward system that includes monetary incentives, time off, varying start times, and has a supervisory staff willing to teach the basic skills of good manners, critical thinking, and what the consequences are for one’s actions.
(Sigh. I thought that was what I have been doing? Or haven’t I?)
Annita Woz is a mother of three, writer and parent blogger for EP. To read Annita’s bio, click here.
Jan 3, 2010
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I began using the Total Transformation Program by James Lehman the minute it landed in my mailbox. I even opened it up in the car before driving home so that I could inspect the contents. I could not wait to begin! I perused and panned through everything. I scanned the upcoming lessons and wanted to jump through more than one lesson a night (despite the warning not to in the introduction).
My husband, upon seeing the program folder in my hand and the smile upon my face, grimaced and said “Oh, it’s here, huh?”
Not quite the same approach. That is fitting because we have butted heads since the day we met over parenting styles. We are a blended family and he is stepfather to my two boys who have special needs. My oldest boy, Thomas, in addition to having autism, ADHD, and bipolar disorder, also has been diagnosed with Oppositional Defiant Disorder. We have successfully found treatment for all of his other problems except this one. He seems to have a compulsive need to argue and talk back. (And that’s the least of it, too!)
When Jerry, my husband, first joined our family, Thomas was used to getting his way because I had given up on arguing with him. If I tried to stand my ground, Thomas would rage, destroying whatever got into his hands first. I had already begun working with a therapist to try and determine the actual causes of these rages so that we could apply corrective action to them and get them to stop. I am happy to report that the work I did with that therapist helped a great deal in calming Thomas down. The only difficult behavior that remained was his lack of respect, his back talk and argumentativeness.
My husband Jerry had already raised two kids who were not special needs. They turned out “okay.” He, like many people, spanked his kids on the bottom, smacked their hands when they were toddlers and touched things they ought not touch, yelled at them to get them to comply, and so on. All of those techniques just seem to not work with Thomas and instead seem to make the behaviors worse. Oh sure, yelling works great in the short term, but then you just have to yell more loudly next time and somehow intensify the moment to get the same result the next time. And it didn’t actually solve the behavior, i.e. get him to listen to me the first time I told him to pick up his dirty laundry.
What was the answer, then? Jerry didn’t want to participate in this new program and I did because I could see (based upon basic common sense and my previous education in this field) that The Total Transformation Program had the potential to really save my son from himself. So, Jerry didn’t participate at first.
I have gone on using the lessons (yes, they are working!) and being the disciplinarian in the family. Jerry agreed that for two weeks, we’d do things “my” way (according to the TT program) and he would stand back and let me do it without any usurping from him. He’d support my efforts, but not be the actual disciplining parent. This would give him time to see that I could get more results out of Thomas using the TT program than he could with his yelling. Well, I’m happy to say that after going through this little experiment, this week Jerry is going to complete the lessons with me.
He’s busy right now playing catch-up and we’ll go on from there.
Be sure to check in with Heather as she blogs about her family’s experiences using the Total Transformation Program. And if you’re working through the program, please feel free to post any advice, comments or questions here!
Heather Sedlock is the mother of two special needs kids, a writer and a Parent Blogger for EP. To read more about Heather (and all our contributors), please click here.
Jan 3, 2010
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Believe it or not, parents are starting to use the wisdom of the Dog Whisperer as they raise their children.
At first, I have to admit I was a bit skeptical. I grew up with animals and I love them, but my feathers get ruffled when people compare their dog to my child, or infer that you should treat your child like a dog. You know, one of those conversations where you’re explaining how your kid is misbehaving and making you crazy, and then some well-intentioned soul pipes up with, “Oh, my dog does the same thing. I know how you feel.” (Really? Because the last time I looked, your dog didn’t have a frontal lobe or opposable thumbs.)
But then I read this article in the New York Times. Apparently, moms and dads out there are having some success using Cesar Millan’s advice when it comes to their kids. It mentioned how Brenna Hicks (a blogger and counselor from Florida) applies the “Always show your dog who’s master” philosophy to raising kids. She maintains that you should always act like the “alpha dog” of the pack. (I guess that means that our kids will “smell the fear” on us?) But I do get that — being calm, assertive and confident with your kids goes a long way in getting them to respect you and the rules.
According to the NYT article and other interviews I’ve read with him, Cesar Millan says that parents ask him questions all the time about their kids. His philosophy? “In America, kids have too many options when they only need one: Just do it.” He also says that in Mexico (his country of origin) “the elder is always the pack leader.”
He’s got a point!
Now if I could just get my barking to sound authoritative enough. Woof.
P.S. Be sure to check out James Lehman’s upcoming article in EP about kids who want to be the “alpha dog” in the family.
Jan 3, 2010
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Is your child ready for a quality, handcrafted toy that is as unique as it is beautiful? When you see HANSA’s line of lifelike animal toys, you will want one for yourself. The Tarsier Plush toy, modeled after the interesting Tarsiers of Southeast Asia, is perfect for children (three and up is recommended), animal lovers, and toy collectors. These are beautifully designed and crafted toys that you and your child will treasure for years.
With your Tarsier plush toy, you will receive a tag that will tell you more about this exotic animal’s habitat, eating habits, history, and more. In addition to having a beautiful animal, you will also be able to learn a bit more about how it lives.
HANSA’s Tarsier plush toy will make a great buddy for your child or a great collector’s item for you. Young children will appreciate the lush texture and huggable size of this little guy. If you are an animal lover or toy collector, you may want one for yourself so you can admire the intricate detail, custom design, and quality materials. Tarsier plush toys allow you to bring a little of nature into your home and a little beauty into your life.
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Jan 3, 2010
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Watch your child’s imagination soar when you give her the Mega Bloks Bucket! Toy building sets offer a great way to encourage your child’s imagination and motor skills, plus they’re lots of fun! The Mega Bloks Bucket is truly one of the best toys out there for kids!
The Mega Bloks Bucket is a 500-piece toy building set that is designed for kids ages 4 and up. These colorful building blocks come in different colors, shapes, and sizes, and are perfect for creating towers, bridges, castles or anything else your child can come up with! That’s what is so great about this toy building set – there are no limits on your child’s imagination and the creations that are waiting to be built!
The block set comes in a sturdy plastic container that makes both clean up and storage easy. Just dump them out to play, and toss them back in the bucket when it’s time to pick up – it’s that easy! Plus, they’re easy to tote from one place to another in the convenient container so you can easily carry them from one room to another.
Toy building sets are the best toys because never lose their ability to capture the interest of children. Entertaining and easy to play with, they can be fun for both kids and adults when the imagination takes charge. The Mega Bloks Bucket will make a perfect addition to your child’s play room and will easily become one of your child’s top toys!
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Jan 3, 2010
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What does it take to be one of top toys of all time? A commitment to quality construction, durability, safety, versatility, and most importantly from your child’s point of view, fun. The Radio Flyer Wagon has been one of the best toys for children of all time, and the Radio Flyer Voyager Canopy Wagon offers a new design and extra features that will be sure to exceed your high standards and provide your child with endless fun and excitement.
What makes the Radio Flyer Voyager Canopy Wagon different? Its body, instead of being made of steel like other Radio Flyer Wagons, is made of a durably, sturdy plastic, which is suitable for children as young as eighteen months. Don’t worry: it’s still the bright bold red you expect of a Radio Flyer wagon. There are two seats, with seatbelts, that can fold up for up to two passengers, or fold down when you or your child needs the extra hauling capacity. In addition, when the seats are folded down, there is a bunch of storage space underneath. Your child is sure to find all sorts of things to carry around, and the wagon is also great for you to carry groceries or transport other items. For added comfort, there are four molded in cup holders which can hold juice boxes, cups, or cans. Your child will be riding in style with this great wagon, and will be doing it safely.
This Radio Flyer Wagon measures 39.25” x 19” x 16.5”, making it roomy enough for children, packages, other toys, and whatever else your child can think of putting in it. With its durable design and materials, it can withstand heavy loads, rough treatment, and much more. This is one of the best toys you can give your child: it is safe, fun, and can be used in endless ways. Your child will love the Radio Flyer Voyager Canopy Wagon for years to come.
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Dec 31, 2009
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A lot of people don’t consider submarines when they think of radio controlled toys; usually cars, trucks, airplanes, and boats that stay above the water are the first to come to mind. But if you’re shopping for an RC toy, you should think about getting a submarine. Why, you ask? Because they’re unique and awesome!
The Swimline RC Submarine also features a search light, long range transmitter, and cool yet durable body design. The handheld controller is easy to use, so navigating your sub is no problem. The sub is designed for kids as young as five years old, but older children and adults can also enjoy hours of fun with this cool watercraft. Four AA batteries for the submarine and one 9V for the controller is all you need to put your ship underwater and start having fun!
If you’re in the market for a radio controlled toy but want something a little different than the standard RC car or truck, then check out the Swimline RC Submarine. With its quality diving capabilities and lasting durability, this RC submarine will provide hours of underwater entertainment for you and your friends and family!
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Dec 29, 2009
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You can now return to the world of Pokemon on the Nintendo DS by playing Pokemon Diamond DS, one of the two new Pokemon Nintendo DS games. It is a game that places you in the fictional area of Sinnoh. Once you have started the game, you will realize that the symbols of Sinnoh are two different Pokemon, both of which appear to be mythical figures in that realm. These Pokemon supposedly have the ability to control space and time and the sinister Team Galaxy is hoping to find these mythical figures and use them to control the universe.
In addition to these two legendary Pokemon, there are also many new Pokemon that should be making their first appearances in the Diamond version. These Pokemon include Mine Jr., Weavile, Munchlax and Lucario, all of which are Pokemon that had previously only appeared in movies. Pokemon Diamond DS is set to be one of the best toys of the Pokemon saga because of the new introductions and of course it is probably going to be one of the top toys in the industry for awhile. As far as kids’ toys go, this is definitely one of your best buys right now. In the true tradition of the best toys of Pokemon, it has everything your child could want.
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Dec 29, 2009
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The Hot Wheels Turbo Driver is a PC game designed around the Hot Wheels Empire. It is a toy that could be the perfect gift for a Hot Wheels fan. Boys love Hot Wheels cars, and they love to play computer games. This product is a great combination of the two rolled into one affordable toy, and it could be one of the best toys 2010.
The Hot Wheels Turbo Driver consists of a game controller and a car-tridge. There are eight different car-tridges available for separate purchase, and they are each about the price of a multipack of regular Hot Wheels cars. Each car-tridge represents a different car in the game. To play the game, you just plug in the controller to your PC, install the software, and then log onto www.hotwheels.com. On the website, the controller allows kids to play 20 different games plus an exclusive “Race the World” game that has races on different tracks in countries all over the planet. This is considered to be one of the best toys for boys around because it is engaging and a little educational too.
Several Hot Wheels Turbo Driver reviews talk about the large amount of time that kids tend to spend on the computer after they get into this game. There are so many different games and race tracks, that they can spend many hours trying them all out.
You can also buy Hot Wheels Turbo Driver game car-tridges, which are little actual Hot Wheels cars that attach one at a time to the game controller and unlock a new car for you to drive on the website. Each car has its own special capabilities, so kids can pick out the car that is best for any one particular race. As one of the top toys of 2010, the game and the car-tridges will undoubtedly be a popular gift choice at holiday time.
One Hot Wheels Turbo Driver review pointed out a very important fact that parents will want to know before they set up the game. When you first turn on the game and start playing, you are instructed to enter your name and your car’s license plate number. You can only set up one player. Only one. You cannot set up more than one child with his own name on the game, so when you first play the game, it is a good idea to enter something like just a last name or maybe “smith family”, so that all the kids can play. If one child enters his name, then the other children will have to play the game as the first child, and there may be some hurt feelings or even arguments if this happens. All the boys in your family will want to play with one of the hottest toys for 2010.
Another Hot Wheels Turbo Driver review shared some useful information that parents may want to keep in mind when shopping for the game system, which is one of the best toys for boys. In order to win the “Race the World” game, one must have all the different car-tridges. The review stated that it is impossible to win a race if you use the wrong car to run it. Using just the one car that comes with the game for all races will not work. That said, the car-tridges are quite reasonably priced, so you may want to pick them all up when you buy the controller.
Even despite these statements, Hot Wheels Turbo Driver reviews are still calling this one of the top toys 2008. Even the people who mentioned the slight disadvantages of the system still raved about how much fun it was to play the game.
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Dec 29, 2009
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Are you looking for a cool radio controlled toy for someone special (or even yourself)? Then look no further! It’s time to check out the Air Hogs Mini Storm Launcher and find out what rc is all about! This sweet rc launcher comes with cool tricks and stunts that you have complete control over! This is seriously one of the best toys out there now, so don’t wait to amaze your friends (and yourself) with the capabilities of this must-have toy!
The Mini Storm Launcher is recommended for adults and children ages 8 and up and is guaranteed to please any crowd. With its awesome jumps and other amazing stunts, these kids toys are ones that everyone will love – even die-hard rc enthusiasts! Its impressive range and precision flying only add to its list of cool features and will leave both the operator and spectators in awe. This really is one cool flying machine!
If you know someone who’s got an rc toy on their wish list, don’t limit yourself to shopping for the standard car, truck, or plane. Get them one of the top toys out right now, the one that will truly knock their socks off – go for the Air Hogs Mini Storm Launcher!
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Dec 29, 2009
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All little girls love to play the mothering role, and the Little Mommy Dolls are regarded as one of the best ways to help them to achieve their goal of being the best mother ever.
Gotta Go Doll
Some parents find it hard to believe that Little Mommy Dolls include a doll who can go potty, but the Gotta Go Doll is all about letting little girls teach their dolls to learn how to use the potty like a big girl! This set includes everything that a child (or baby) would need to learn to go potty, including a toilet that has disappearing water and appearing “waste”, and a sink so that she can be hygienic! Some of the phrases that the doll says, which include telling the child that she needs to go potty, can be hard to understand, but other than that it is a great toy for young children.
Walk & Giggle
Who doesn’t love it when their child walks to them? Little girls who want to play mother can have their baby walk to them, and can actually teach their baby how to walk, thanks to the Walk & Giggle doll. This one not only learns to walk but can also play peek-a-boo and, once she learns to walk well, can take her little pull toy for a walk as well! With sixty phrases, this is one doll that we found to keep children entertained for hours, even though it may be a bit rough on batteries, especially if it’s used all the time as it likely will be.
Scoot So Cute
Like most Little Mommy toys, the Scoot So Cute is all about imagination play, and this one just begs to be cuddled. It not only learns to crawl and giggles, it coos as well, making it almost irresistible to not only children but their mothers as well, as this is one “baby” that doesn’t need tons of care and yet is extremely adorable. With a realistic look, this is a great starter doll for a young girl who wants to play mom. The manufacturer recommends that a child be 2 years old but we found that even eighteen month olds enjoyed watching this little girl crawling across the floor.
Scrub-A-Dub-Dub
What little girl doesn’t want to take their Little Mommy Dolls into the bath tub with them? The Scrub-A-Dub-Dub doll gives them that opportunity. This choice is designed to go into the tub with young children so that they can wash her up and play with her. It’s a great baby for a first baby doll, but a word of caution: make sure that you get all of the water out of her before you put her away, just to be safe. It is designed so that the water mostly comes out of it on its own, but spend a little time letting her dry out for a long life.
Baby Ah-Choo
There are Little Mommy Dolls for almost every occasion, and, of course, there is a baby that has caught a cold! The Baby Ah-Choo doll has got a cold and needs her mother to take care of her. Squeeze her belly and she sneezes, use her thermometer and medicine and mom can make her better! We found this baby to be great for not only helping girls develop their imagination, but also for helping them to develop compassion for other people. Even some little boys can enjoy helping the baby to get better using the medicine and the tools that come with this choice.
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Dec 29, 2009
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Are you looking for a fun way to entertain your preschooler? Look no further. The Fisher-Price Power Wheels Stinger XS is one cool dune buggy that will definitely please any child. Developed for children from ages 3 to 5 it features Fisher-Price’s exclusive Monster Traction. This is their high performance drive system that enables this battery powered vehicle to navigate through whatever terrain or obstacle it may find. Think about what you have in your backyard: tree roots, garden hoses, sidewalks and driveways and possibly wet grass, gravel, and mud. No need to worry about getting stuck. It can also tackle bumps and other rough terrain without the need for a push like other similar vehicles. It comes with two speeds going forward – 2.5 and 5 mph – and a maximum of 2.5 mph in reverse. It features Power Lock brakes, a 12 volt battery, and a charger. A fully charged battery should provide one to three hours of riding time. This will, of course, depend on the weight of the passengers, what surface it is riding on, if it is being run continuously, what speed is being used, and the temperature. It is important to note that it includes the safety element of high speed lock-out for beginners.
Brightly colored with orange, gray, black, and yellow components the Power Wheels Stinger XS has a steel frame with an open cockpit that is roomy enough for two. The gray molded seats and side bars provide comfort and security. The large off road tires enable it to take on hard surfaces, wet grass, and other rough terrain. It has a black go kart like steering wheel and pretend seatbelts. A bonus feature is the roomy front storage compartment under the hood. This is a great place to store toys or whatever else you want to take along for the ride. Or maybe you need a place to hide something special.
Power Wheels first came on the market in 1971. Each vehicle is made to precise specifications and meets very high standards with a One Year Bumper-to-Bumper Limited Warranty. All vehicles are tested by kids in both the Fisher-Price onsite Play Lab and its in-home test program. This helps to insure that their Power Wheels are age appropriate, easy to operate, and fun to drive. Power Wheels also has more than 300 Authorized Service Centers in the United States so it is easy for any problem that arises to be fixed.
What adventures your child can have with one of the top toys on the market today. All their friends in the neighborhood will want to ride along so they can share in the fun. They will be standing in line to get their chance to drive or at least ride along as your child takes them for a spin.
Made to withstand preschoolers and their activities, this kid’s toy is bound to be a favorite in your household. Your kids will think it is so much fun you shouldn’t be surprised to find it running around inside your house when the weather is bad and the kids can’t play outside.
The Power Wheels Stinger XS will surely delight any child and will ultimately become one of the top toys for Christmas 2009. Any child would love to see one under their tree!
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Dec 29, 2009
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Drawing and doodling are two things that every child enjoys and plays around with when they are young. Any parent who has had a child come home from school, beaming with pride over the picture they created during the day and excited to hang it on the fridge to show it off can testify to this fact. Giving a child some crayons and markers and letting them express their creativity is something that every parent can do to help foster their child’s artistic inclinations and imagination. Drawing and doodling just took a whole new spin with the creation of the RC Color Bug. This kid’s toy combines children’s love of drawing and their love of RC toys and puts it into one fun-filled, entertaining best toys choice.
This RC toy requires three AAA batteries and one nine volt battery, which do not come included. Let your kids try out this new “spin” on drawing and they will have hours of creative, imaginative filled fun. With the RC Color Bug, the possibilities of what your children can create are endless! Your child will be proud to show off what they have created!
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Dec 29, 2009
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The Littlest Petshop Digital Planner is like a pet who keeps track of all your important information. Kids think this is one of the most popular toys they have ever seen, and it comes in several different colors to choose from. Your child can choose what type of pet he or she would like to have, and then take care of the pet with the planner. You never have to worry about your child’s pet clawing your drapes or tinkling on your rug.
Once your child sets up the Littlest Petshop Digital Planner, the pet fun starts right away. You child can comb her pet’s fur and add pretty accessories like ponytails, give the pet a bath, feed it and take it for a walk. Using the stylus included, she can teach the pet to do tricks and even pet him. If you child feels like a shopping trip, she can take the pet along, buying new toys, clothes and even shoes for the pet. There are also several games your child can play with her new pet. There is so much fun to be had, and no barking or odors to worry about like there would be with a real pet. As an added perk, this pet can be taken anywhere: in the car, on a bus, out to recess, to the store, or even to grandma’s house. She’ll never have to leave her pet at home alone.
One of the things that places this among the best toys for kids is that it has many other features besides just game playing. The planner is also an electronic calendar, an address book, a calculator, and a fun interactive game tool all in one. This can be great practice for your little one who is old enough to understand the importance of organization. She can get used to entering important dates into her calendar and keeping track of her after school activities and social engagements. The planner can be a great toy that will help your child get organized.
She can also keep addresses and phone numbers for everyone in her family as well as emergency numbers. She’ll know where to call for help if she needs it, she’ll have your work phone number and she can also pick up the phone and call grandma on her own if she wants to. The Littlest Petshop Digital Planner is great practice with electronic data devices, and she’ll surely use more than one of those as she gets older. This is one of the hottest toys for growing girls who are learning responsibility.
If you are looking for one of the top toys to get for your daughter, your granddaughter, or your niece, this is a great one. If you do decide to go with the Littlest Petshop Digital Planner, it is a good idea to pick up some extra batteries to keep the fun going for a while. The planner uses three AAA batteries but the batteries do last for a little while.
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Dec 29, 2009
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Puzzibits Flexible 3D Puzzle Art sets are a building / puzzle toy brought to us by Manhattan Toy. The individual pieces are hexagonal in shape and come in twelve different colors, red, orange, white, black, dark blue, light blue, dark green, light green, pink, purple, grey and yellow. The hexagonal pieces interlock through small circles and pins on alternating sides. The small circles are slightly lower than the hexagonal face of the piece and the small pins are underneath the hexagonal face so that when they are interlocked you can only see the hexagonal face of the Puzzibits piece.
There are ten different sets which allow you to build different combinations of things. The Captain’s Crew set lets you build a two dimensional skull and crossbones, a two dimensional parrot or a three dimensional pirate saber. The Lovely Princess set lets you build a 2D princess, a 2D castle or a 3D tiara. The Prehistoric Predator set lets you build a 2D crocodile, a 3D dinosaur or a 3D shark. The Super Safari set lets you build a 2D monkey, a 2D tiger, a 3D lion or a 3D zebra. The Ocean Depths set lets you build a 2D sail boat, a 2D seahorse, a 2D octopus or a 3D turtle. The Pretty Pink Pets set lets you build a 2D kitten, a 2D ballerina bear, a 3D dog or a 3D flamingo. The Monster Madness set lets you build a 2D alien, a 2D crab like monster or a 3D dragon. The Garden Delight set lets you build a 2D flower, a 2D butterfly, a 2D butterfly and flower or a 3D dragonfly. The Wacky Wear set lets you build a 3D mask, 3D hat or a 3D tie. The Mega Mix set has enough pieces to build all the creations above and is by far the best value.
The Puzzibits review with the older group of children revealed that not long after they got their hands on these entertaining little toys, they were more fond of coming up with their own creations than of building by the instructions. Toy sets that children can get creative with and build whatever they want have always been a great success and Puzzibits, with its uniquely shaped pieces and bright colors is no exception. We came to the conclusion that not only would we recommend this toy, but most of us were going right out to buy some for our own homes as well.
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Dec 29, 2009
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There are a lot of things children can do when it comes to interactive television these days. Animal Planet Baby Animals Edition introduces children to young animals along with all sorts of games. Most adults know Animal Planet as a television show that delivers nothing but programming on animals. Now they have made a product that specifically tailors to young children.
What’s in Store
The DVD Discoveries Animal Planet Baby Animals Edition comes with two interactive DVDs and wooden puzzle blocks. The DVDs feature a great number of activities, trivia, and footage that features baby animals. Kids are not just stuck watching a show or a program for sheer entertainment. Instead, the DVDs encourage children to think, provide answers, and involve themselves in the show some other way. It allows children to be engaged and using their minds to solve puzzles as well as learn about different things as they go.
Parents can even get involved if they so choose, joining in with children as the program runs and either encouraging or helping kids along. There are also a few games included on the DVDs, which teach even as they give kids a good time.
The puzzle blocks are 9-sided, and when put together in the correct combination, create 9 different animal pictures. Because the DVD Discoveries Animal Planet Baby Animals Edition is meant for children of a very young age and up to 10 years-old, the wooden blocks will be able to take many years of kid play
Very Cute
It’s hard not to love something that features adorable baby animals. Kids will not only see them, but hear the sounds different baby animals make and how they interact with their animal parents and their surroundings. It’s an overall learning experience that involves plenty of stimulation each and every time.
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Many adults remember the days of action figures—when a movie came out, that’s what everyone played with. Now, however, times have changed and interactive television is more popular than ever. Sometimes coupled with toys and sometimes not, Ice Age: The DVD Game is meant to both bring favorite characters back to the screen as well as provide hands on entertainment for children.
In the Screen
On the screen, kids and parents alike can take part in the materials, such as puzzles, video challenges to find things like acorns, as well as interact with the characters themselves. Different characters will have different things to say, as well as various challenges for players to partake in.
On the Floor
The Ice Age: The DVD Game also comes with a tile-based game board. There are 24 and each one is double-sided, which means there is plenty to do in the games. It also has 5 game pieces, allowing up to five people to play. Several of the challenges on the screen correspond to things on the game board, and only by solving puzzles and problems can players move ahead.
Kids should have a good time while playing, especially if they loved the movies. Parents are likely to catch the enthusiasm from kids and get into the game as well. This one is meant for children ages 6 and up.
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Phew. Can we all sit down now? The wrapping paper has been sorted through and thrown away. We’ve installed batteries and clipped twist ties and the children are playing with all their new treats. I’m watching what my kids are into and I’d like to hear your experience.
- Did your child settle in and play with that one must-have toy for as many hours as you spent looking for it?
- Did something else make its way under the tree and become a sleeper hit?
- Will you be returning any toys this year? Which ones and why?
I hope your holiday was happy! Now put your feet up!
Now That It’s Over, What Toy Was The Biggest Hit? originally appeared on About.com Toys on Saturday, December 26th, 2009 at 06:50:55.
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I think we can chalk up a win in the multicultural education department because my 4-year-old son just told Santa he wants a dreidel for Christmas. Santa didn’t flinch, as if his elves fulfill millions of dreidel (Compare Prices) requests every Christmas, but it’s posing a challenge for me. You see, our visit to the jolly one took place on December 23, leaving little time for Santa to manufacture and deliver our dreidel, so I’m going to try to help him out.
My sister helpfully suggested, “Make it out of clay!” but again, the last-minute nature of the request does not allow for clay’s required drying time. I think she’s enjoying this. She’s definitely enjoying this.
If I was in my own community (rather than visiting my parents for Christmas) I could post my dreidel wish on my Facebook page and countless friends would come to my rescue. I’d ignore their chuckles and smirks and accept their bottom-of-the-Hanukkah-box dreidel without hesitation, but alas I am a stranger in a strange land this week.
I’m planning to fling open the doors of the nearest Target at 8:00 am, head straight for the dollar section and score a post-Hanukkah dreidel deal. Please cross your fingers for me. Someday we’ll tell our grandchildren about this and I’ll be laughing, too.
What last-minute wishes are you hoping to fulfill today?
“Santa, I Want a Dreidel.” originally appeared on About.com Toys on Thursday, December 24th, 2009 at 06:29:44.
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As we get closer to the big day, don’t forget to download the content you need to run those new high-tech toys! For example, the LeapFrog Tag Reading System (Compare Prices) requires a grownup to plug the USB cable into a computer and download the books before they can be read. While this technology works pretty well, it’s best to allow extra time in case you run into hiccups.
To avoid disappointment on Christmas morning, parents should also pay attention to Christmas toys’ compatibility with your home technology. For example, the cool, new Dora Links doll (Compare Prices) is a high-tech toy with an online component, but it doesn’t work with Macs.
I have a close friend who grew up in the UK and speaks the Queen’s English. Her two daughters were born in the US, but because both she and her husband speak with a UK accent, the girls do too! She treasures toys that allow her girls to hear voices from her homeland, so she cleverly downloaded several Tag books from LeapFrog’s UK site for her daughter’s Tag Reading System.
Parents can also program many LeapFrog toys to greet the child by name, so that’s another good thing to do in advance.
We think maybe Santa will bring Tag books for our sons, so I put the Tag Reader and the USB cable in my suitcase when we traveled to my parents’ for Christmas. Hey, sometimes even Santa needs a hand in the technology department!
Downloading is Part of Assembly originally appeared on About.com Toys on Wednesday, December 23rd, 2009 at 07:46:32.
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At this point we’re all overwhelmed with the last-minute holiday shopping, but I may have a solution. If you have a car lover over the age of 3 and happen to need a tank of gas, pop into your local Hess or Hess Express station and pick up their annual Hess vehicle!
Each Christmas since 1964 Hess has released a vehicle and collectors never miss one. This year’s vehicle is a very cool race car with a smaller race car hidden inside. Both have flashing lights and the larger car has several cool sound effects. The smaller car has a smooth and quiet pull-back motor that makes it go really, really fast.
The Hess Race Car and Racer sells for $24.99.
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Do you collect Hess vehicles?
Need a Last-Minute Gift and a Tank of Gas? originally appeared on About.com Toys on Tuesday, December 22nd, 2009 at 06:17:00.
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Toys R Us and Walmart have been advertising that they have limited quanitites in stores only but this morning Walmart has a few online. They are also available at amazon and ebay but prices might be inflated.
Don’t fight the crowds, pick up Zhu Zhu Pets online now!
Zhu Zhu Pets have been nominated by the Toy Industry Association for Girl Toy of the Year and Innovative Toy of the Year. Winners of the Toy Awards are announced in February, 2010.
Dec 19, 2009
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The Princess and the Frog opens nationwide tomorrow but the toys have been selling already and some are sold out. With classic Disney animation, a great new African American princess, settings in New Orleans, music by Randy Newman, there’s a lot to like about this movie. We’ll hear from the Moms and kids tomorrow.
The most popular of the Princess and the Frog toys are the Princess Tiana dolls. Tiana wears her bayou wedding dress. Prince Naveen also wears his wedding suit. There is also a Princess Tiana doll in a sparkling blue gown that lights up with firefly lights. She is nominated by the Toy Industry Assocation for Girl Toy of the Year.
The Princess and the Frog Tiana’s Cookbook with recipes for kids is a fun and inexpensive gift at just $8. It includes recipes for Tiana’s Beignets, Swamp-Water Smoothies, Ray’s Mud Pie and Banana French Toast.
There is a colorful Disney The Princess and the Frog Princess Tiana Cooking set which would be a lot of fun to combine with a kids play kitchen for Christmas.
Finally, Disney Princess & The Frog Bedding makes for great room decor in fun colors. Your kids will love to go to bed in their fun new sheets and comforter.
Pick up the popular Princess and the Frog toys now as they are selling out quickly!
Dec 19, 2009
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Find where to purchase the best deals on the Play Kitchen Toys in this post.
The pretend play kitchen toys are usually designed for toddlers and preschoolers. Although we may think of them as girls toys, the boys often like to play with kitchens as well. I found that my daughter used her kitchen indoors and out (we moved it around) for a few years. It was definitely a toy that was played with over and over again. From time to time, we updated it with inexpensive new pots and pans or pretend food. Here are some of the great kids toy kitchen deals available right now:
Little Tikes Side by Side Kitchen – This is a corner design kitchen with small sink, refrig, oven and storage. With a smaller footprint and price, it is a great value. On sale now at Walmart for $49. At this price, it won’t last long.
Step2 Lifestyle Custom Kitchen – Another great plastic kitchen with lots of features. It has refrigerator, oven, stove, and lots of storage. Walmart has the Step2 Kitchen bundled with a 101 piece play food set for just $79. Another bargain that is hard to beat.
KidKraft Large Play Kitchen. If you’re looking for a wooden toy kitchen, KidKraft has the best. The large play kitchen has a refrigerator, freezer, oven and microwave with doors that open and close. Note the wood kitchens are made with particle board and we don’t recommend outdoor use. But if you’re planning to keep it indoors, this should be a great pretend play experience. The KidKraft Large Play Kitchen is $139.
If you have the space, there are several other larger play kitchens with more play options. I particularly like the new Step2 Market-Fresh Kitchen which combines kitchen with cash register, scanner and shopping made bag of recycled material.
Find these great Play Kitchens and more.
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